Yesterday, a friend called to invite me to attend a birthday party, thought it was his birthday, didn't say blessing, he just know to a play a dry sister's birthday party, I asked another friend said: "you go to?", "didn't want to go, can't, all is a friend", aggravated listen to really come out, think of yu hua wrote: "I don't pretend to have many friends, but returned to the lonely, in the real I started a life alone. I sometimes unbearable empty torture because of loneliness, but I'd rather in such a way to maintain their self-esteem, rather than at the expense of the shame for that kind of friends. On the surface of the"To this kind of meaningless social, how to prepare waste our much time, it is not necessary to kidnap who cater to their own willingness to smile;I'm not a nice guy, what your sister you big ye don't about my birthday.